Getting Married   Engagement edited

I am diverging from my usual direction in this blog.  At my age that is allowed.  I am getting married (again) in about two months.  The woman who said “Yes” to me is a wonderful lady.  She is beautiful, brilliant, vibrant, a great mother and a great encourager.  She has inspired me and stood by me since we first started seeing each other.  Her encouragement has pulled me up when I needed that extra motivation, just to get through a day.  She has needs, too, and I am dedicated to meet all of her needs, and hopefully all of her desires as we go forward in life together.

This journey certainly has not been without its bumps.  Though most people we know are happy for us, there are those who are quick to criticize.  “It is too soon,” “You should never remarry,” “You should try to be reconciled to your ‘ex’,” “It can’t be God’s will.”  These and other comments have wafted to my hearing.  I admit that I am not perfect and have made many mistakes in my life.  I can’t undo those that are in the past, nor can I go backwards and start over.

My fiancé and I are in concert about our relationship to the Lord.  We recognize that we have had failures and have gone to Him for forgiveness.  We know where we stand before Him and look forward together, not backwards.

I am deeply in love and I’m not afraid to say it.  I have experienced a closeness in love that is brand new to me.  The challenges we have to face we will face together and together with the Lord, praying that those who are against us will set aside any judgmental thoughts and come along side us.

Those of you who have tasted my writing will see that falling in love does nothing but improve an authors’ perspective.  Keep reading and watch for my next novel WITNESS IN THE WINDOW coming soon.

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About smcpherson58

Aside from loving chocolate and coffee (not necessarily in that order) Scott McPherson has learned that he loves to write. He writes fiction and, so far, has published two novels. Scott has many varied interests, though he tries to focus on one at a time. He has worked for nearly thirty-five years as a family physician, a pass-time that gives him great pleasure and pays the bills. He has five daughters and dotes upon three grandchildren. Recently married, he really loves life. Scott writes from his life experiences and from travel. His career in the active Air Force was brief, but he has been a member of the Nebraska Air National Guard since just before 9/11 in 2001. The aftermath of that great disaster changed the face of the Guard and led to missions in far-away lands. He has spent time in Turkey, Iraq, Spain, Crete and Guam in missions related to support for Iraqi Freedom and Enduring Freedom. He has been to Iceland and Antarctica as well. Scott has no personal experience with violent death or murder, but has gained knowledge from experts. In his first novel, “A Step Ahead of Death,” his character, Jack Sharp MD, becomes embroiled in a murder mystery. First as suspect, then as amateur sleuth, Jack tries to make a difference. He finds himself right in the middle of an investigation well beyond the scope of a local murder. A man of faith, Scott traveled to Africa with his small family in the 1980s and served as a medical missionary in Zaire (known as Congo today) with a church organization. The vast difference in what it takes to exist in such an environment served as a basis for much of his second novel, a thriller, “Congo Mission.” His character, Jack, is twenty years younger than in the first novel. In “Congo Mission” Jack serves as a physician in a missionary hospital in the jungles of northwestern Zaire. There he is not only captivated by a young woman visiting the region, but falls victim to his nemesis Jacques Levant. His motivations and faith are tested and his resolve to do God’s work gets pushed to the limit. When he is not writing Scott enjoys walking, a practice that actually led to his first attempt at writing a novel. He began making notes and writing prose about the mundane things around him. He tried to make the details sound interesting, even though it was just for his own pleasure. Eventually he found that he could expand his prose to “what if?” “What if I just kept walking?” “What if I, or my character, found a dead body in the ditch along the side of the path?” That was the premise for the first novel, “A Step Ahead of Death.” Scott McPherson is an avid trombone player and has played since he was nine years old. He marched in the Cornhusker Marching Band at the University of Nebraska and now takes advantage of one free football game a year by playing in the half-time show with the UNL Alumni Marching Band. He plays in the Lincoln Civic Orchestra and a community band from the nearby town of Waverly, Nebraska. Scott loves to sing as well, though his range seems to have diminished in recent years. He has sung in college and church choirs and remembers performing parts of Handel’s Messiah as a highlight of his singing experience. One little-known fact about Scott is that he once sang soprano in a boys choir. Scott plans to keep writing as long as the ideas flow and others show interest in his stories. He loves to interact with other writers or readers about what has become a passion in his life. Reviews are always welcome as are questions and comments.
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